What can I do so our relationship can be like it was in the beginning?

We dated for 3 months.. It bothered me badly that he never asked me out and so I started a few fights just because I was being insecure about the possibility that he was using me. Well those fights pushed him back. We went on vacation and he was going to ask me out then but decided not to. We had a fight on the way back because I was mad at myself for this being my fault. We went on a break for a week and since then only saw each other once.. It has been 2 weeks since we came back from vacation and he's been busy with work. (that's legit) I'm really missing the beginning when he used to come see me 3-4 times a week (he lives an hour away btw).. We also had an amazing connection and he always told me he knew I was the one for him which made me fall for him. Since our fights we both were pushed back and have lost some feelings. I've been acting weird cuz I want everything to be back to normal and I know it's going to take some work. During a fight he said he doesn't feel like he's chasing me and would like to.. So in these past 2 weeks I've been acting distant (by responding to texts right away, or ignoring phone calls for about an hour) idk if this is helping, it doesn't seem like it is and it seems like when I was myself he was more into me. What can I do so our relationship can be what it was like in the beginning?